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Pennebaker, James W., Segal, Janel D. Forming a Story: The Health Benefits of Narrative // Journal of Clinical Psychology, 1999, 55 (10), pp. 1243?1254.

Глава 1. Правда о том, на что способна мать

Adamson, Lauren B., Frick, Janet E. The Still Face: A History of a Shared Experimental Paradigm // Infancy, 2003, 4 (4), pp. 451?473.

Adolph, Karen E., Kretch, Kari S. Infants on the Edge: Beyond the Visual Cliff. In: Alan M. Slater, Paul C. Quinn (ed.). Developmental Psychology. – London: SAGE Publications, 2012, pp. 36?55.

Ainsworth, Mary D. Salter, Mary C. Blehar, Everett Walters, Wall, Sally N. Patterns of Attachment: A Psychological Study of the Strange Situation. – Hillsdale, N. J.: Lawrence Erlbaum Associates, 1978.

Bartholomew, Kim, Horowitz, Leonard M. Attachment Styles Among Young Adults: A Test of a Four-Category Model // Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 1991, 61 (2), pp. 226?244.

Baumeister, Roy F., Ellen Bratslavsky, Catrin Finkenauer, Vohs, Kathleen D. Bad Is Stronger Than Good // Review of General Psychology, 2001, 5 (4), pp. 323?370.

Bowlby, John. Attachment and Loss. Т. 1: Attachment. – New York: Basic Books, 1969.

Cassidy, Julie, Shaver, Phillip R. (ed.). Handbook of Attachment: Theory, Research, and Clinical Applications (2nd ed.). – New York: Guilford Press, 2008.

Chang, Rosemarie Sokol, Thompson, Nicholas. Whines, Cries, and Motherese: Their Relative Power to Distract // Journal of Social, Evolutionary, and Cultural Psychology, 2011, 5 (2), pp. 10?20.

De Haan, Michelle, Jay Belsky, Vincent Reid, Agnes Volern, Johnson, Mark. H. Maternal Personality and Infants’ Neural and Visual Responsivity to Facial Expressions of Emotion // Journal of Child Psychology and Psychiatry, 2004, 45 (7), pp. 1209?1218.

Elliott, Andrew J., Thrash, Todd M. «Approach and Avoidance Temperament as Basic Dimensions of Personality // Journal of Personality, 2010, 78 (3), pp. 865?906.

Elliott, Andrew J., Thrash, Todd M. The Intergenerational Transmission of Fear of Failure // Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 2004, 30 (8), pp. 957?971.

Gibson, E. J., Walk, R. D. The “Visual Cliff” // Scientific American, 1960, 202, pp. 67?71.

Hazan, Cindy, Shaver, Phillip. Romantic Love Conceptualized as an Attachment Process // Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 1987, 42 (3), pp. 511?524.

Holmes, Bjarne M., Johnson, Kimberly R. Adult Attachment and Romantic Partner Preference: A Review // Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 2009, 26 (6, 7), pp. 833?852.

Kisilevsky, Barbara S., et al. Effects of Experience on Fetal Voice Recognition // Psychological Science, 2003, 14 (3), pp. 220?224.

Lench, Heather C., Levin, Linda J. Goals and Responses to Failure: Knowing When to Hold Them and When to Fold Them // Motivation and Emotion, 2008, 32 (2), pp. 127?140.

Mesman, Judi, Marinus H. van IJzendoorn, Bakermans-Kranenburg, Marian J. The Many Faces of the Still-Face Paradigm1: A Review and Meta-Analysis // Developmental Review, 2009, 29 (2), pp. 120?162.

Nishitani, S., et al. The Calming Effect of a Maternal Breast Milk Odor on the Human Newborn Infant // Neuroscience Research, 2009, 63 (1), pp. 66?71.

Ochsner, Kevin N., Gross, James J. The Cognitive Control of Emotion // Trends in Cognitive Science, 2005, 9 (5), pp. 242?249.

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Parsons, Christine E., et al. Ready for Action: A Role for the Human Midbrain in Responding to Infant Vocalizations // Social Cognitive and Affective Neuroscience, 2014, 9 (7), pp. 977–984.

Polcari, Ann, Karen Rabi, Elizabeth Bolger, Teicher, Martin H. Parental Verbal Affection and Verbal Aggression in Childhood Differentially Influence Psychiatric Symptoms and Wellbeing in Young Adulthood // Child Abuse and Neglect, 2014, 38 (1), pp. 91?102.

Schore, Allan N. Attachment and the Regulation of the Right Brain // Attachment and Human Development, 2002, 2 (1), pp. 23?47.

Schore, Allan N. Effects of a Secure Attachment Relationship on Right Brain Development, Affect Regulation, and Infant Mental Health // Infant Mental Health, 2001, 22 (1?2), pp. 7?66.

Sorce, James F., Robert Ende, Joseph J. Campos, Klinnert, Mary D. Maternal Emotional Signaling: Its Effects on the Visual Cliff Behavior of One-Year-Olds // Developmental Psychology, 1985, 21 (1), pp. 195?200.

Striano, Tricia, Amrisha Vaish, Benigno, Joann P. The Meaning of Infants’ Looks: Information Seeking and Comfort Seeking // British Journal of Developmental Psychology, 2006, 24, pp. 615?630.

Teicher, Martin H., et al. The Neurobiological Consequences of Early Stress and Childhood Maltreatment // Neuroscience and Biobehavioral Reviews, 2003, 27, pp. 33?44.

Tomoda, Akemi, et al. Exposure to Parental Verbal Abuse Is Associated with Increased Gray Matter Volume in Superior Temporal Gyrus // NeuroImage, 2011, 54, pp. 5280?5286.

Tronick, Edward Z. Emotions and Emotional Communication in Infants // American Psychologist, 1989, 44 (2), pp. 112?119.

Tronick, Edward, Heidelise Als, Lauren Adamson, Susan Wise, Brazelton, T. Berry. The Infant’s Response to Entrapment Between Contradictory Messages in Face-to-Face Interaction // Journal of the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry, 1978, 17 (1), pp. 1?13.

Глава 2. Какую власть она имела над вами

Bassoff, Evelyn S. Mothering Ourselves: Help and Healing for Adult Daughters. – New York: Dutton, 1991.

Bureau, Jean-Fran?ois, et al. Perceived Dimensions of Parenting and Non-Suicidal Self-Injury in Young Adults // Journal of Youth and Adolescence, 2010, 39 (5), pp. 484?494.

Chernin, Kim. The Hungry Self: Women, Eating, and Identity. – New York: Harper & Row, 1985.

Conterio, Karen, Lader, Wendy. Bodily Harm: The Breakthrough Healing Program for Self-Injurers. – New York: Hyperion Books, 1998.

Edelman, Hope. Motherless Daughters: The Legacy of Loss. – New York: Delta, 1994.

Elgin, Jenna, Pritchard, Mary. Adult Attachment and Disordered Eating in Undergraduate Men and Women // Journal of College Student Psychotherapy, 2006, 21 (2), pp. 25?40.

Finzi-Dottan, Ricky, Karu, Toby. From Emotional Abuse in Childhood to Psychopathology in Adulthood // The Journal of Nervous and Mental Disease, 2006, 94 (8), pp. 616?622.

Goldsmith, Rachel E., Freyd, Jennifer J. Effects of Emotional Abuse in Family and Work Environments: Awareness for Emotional Abuse // Journal of Emotional Abuse, 2005, 5 (1), pp. 95?123.

Gornick, Vivian. Fierce Attachments: A Memoir. – New York: Farrar, Straus & Giroux, 2005.

Mikulincer, Mario, Shaver, Phillip R. Adult Attachment and Affect Regulation. In: Handbook of Attachment: Theory, Research, and Clinical Applications (2nd ed.), Jude Cassidy, Phillip R. Shaver (ed.). – New York and London: Guilford Press, 2008, pp. 503?531.

Roth, Geneen. When Food Is Love: Exploring the Relationship Between Eating and Intimacy. – New York: Plume, 1992.

Sachs-Ericsson, Natalie, Edelyn, Verona, Joiner, Thomas, Preacher, Kristopher J. Parental Verbal Abuse and the Mediating Role of Self-criticism in Adult Internalizing Disorders // Journal of Affective Disorders, 2006, 93 (1?3), pp. 71?78.

Schrodt, Paul, Witt, Paul Land, Shimkowski, Jenna R. A. Meta-Analytical Review of the Demand/Withdraw Pattern of Interaction and its Associations with Individual, Relational, and Communicative Outcomes // Communication Monographs, 2014, 81 (1), pp. 28?58.

Tannen, Deborah. You’re Wearing That? Understanding Mothers and Daughters in Conversation. – New York: Ballantine Books, 2006.

Глава 3. В кругу семьи: волновой эффект

Bank, Stephen, Kahn, Michael. The Sibling Bond. – New York: Basic Books, 1997.

Berntsen, Dorthe, Rubin, David C., Siegler, Ilene C. Two Versions of Life: Emotionally Negative and Positive Events Have Different Roles in the Organization of Life Story and Identity // Emotion, 2011, 11 (5), pp. 1190?1201.

Boer, Frits, Arnold Goedhart, Treffers, Philip. Siblings and Their Parents. In: Children’s Sibling Relationships: Developmental and Clinical Issues, Frits Boer, Judy Dunn (ed.). – Hillsdale, N. J.: Lawrence Erlbaum Associates, 1992, pp. 41?50.

Brys-Craven, Jennifer, Auer, Brandon J., Granger, Douglas A., Massey, Amber R. The Father-Daughter Dance: The Relationship Between Father-Daughter Relationship Quality and Daughters’ Stress Response // Journal of Family Psychology, 2012, 26 (1), pp. 87?94.

DeLuccie, Mary. Mothers: Influential Agents in Father-Child Relations // Genetic, Social, and General Psychology Monographs, 1996, 122 (3), pp. 285?307.

Dunn, Judy, Plomin, Robert. Separate Lives: Why Siblings Are So Different. – New York: Basic Books, 1990.

Jensen, Alexander, Whiteman, Shawn, Fingerman, Karen, Birditt, Kira. “Life Still Isn’t Fair”: Parental Differential Treatment of Young Adult Siblings // Journal of Marriage and Family, 2013, 75 (2), pp. 438?452.

Lamb. Michael E. (ed.). The Role of the Father in Child Development (4th ed.). – Hoboken, N. J.: John Wiley & Sons, 2004.

Leve, Ariel. An Abbreviated Life: A Memoir. – New York: Harper, 2016.

Richmond, Melissa K., Stocker, Clare M., Rienks, Shauna L. Longitudinal Associations Between Sibling Relationship Quality, Parental Differential Treatment, and Children’s Adjustment // Journal of Family Psychology, 2005, 19 (4), pp. 550?559.

Schoppe-Sullivan, Sarah. J., Altenburger, Lauren E., Lee, Meghan A., Bower, Daniel J., Dush, Claire M. Kamp. «Who Are the Gatekeepers? Predictors of Maternal Gatekeeping // Parenting: Science and Practice, 2015, 15 (3), pp. 166?186.

Sroufe, Alan, Siegel, Daniel. The Verdict Is In: The Case for Attachment Theory. drdansiegel.com/uploads/1271-the-verdict-is-in.pdf

Trent, Katherine, Spitze, Glenna D. Growing Up Without Siblings and Adult Sociability Behaviors // Journal of Family Issues, 2011, 32 (9), pp. 1178?1204.

Whiteman, Shawn D., McHale, Susan M., Soli, Anna. Theoretical Perspectives on Sibling Relationships // Journal of Family Theory and Review, 2011, 3 (2), pp. 124?139.

Глава 4. Приспособление: как ее поведение сформировало вас

Barrett, Lisa Feldman, Gross, James, Christensen, Tamlin Conner, Benvenuto, Michael. Knowing What You’re Feeling and Knowing What to Do About It: Mapping the Relation Between Emotion Differentiation and Emotion Regulation // Cognition and Emotion, 2001, 15 (6), pp. 713?724.

Bartholomew, Kim, Horowitz, Leonard M. Attachment Styles Among Young Adults: A Test of a Four-Category Model // Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 1991, 61 (2), pp. 226?244.

Baumeister, Roy E., Bratslavsky, Ellen, Muraven, Mark, Tice, Dianne M. Ego Depletion: Is the Active Self a Limited Resource? // Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 1998, 74 (5), pp. 1252?1265.

Bernier, Annie, Carlson, Stephanie M., Desch?nes, Marie, Matte-Gagn?, C?lia. Social Factors in the Development of Early Executive Functioning: A Closer Look at the Caregiving Environment // Developmental Science, 2012, 15 (1), pp. 12–24.

Bernier, Annie, Carlson, Stephanie M., Whipple, Natasha. From External Regulation to Self-Regulation: Early Parenting Precursors of Young Children’s Executive Functioning // Child Development, 2010, 81 (1), pp. 326?339.

Birnbaum, Gurit E., Reis, Harry T., Mikulincer, Mario, Gillath, Omri, Orpaz, Ayala. When Sex Is More than Just Sex: Attachment Orientations, Sexual Experience, and Relationship Quality // Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 2006, 91 (5), pp. 929?943.

Brackett, Marc A., Lerner, Nicole, Rivers, Susan E., Salovey, Peter, Schiffman, Sara. Relating Emotional Abilities to Social Functioning: A Comparison of Self-Report and Performance Measures of Emotional Intelligence // Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 2006, 91 (4), pp. 780?795.

DeWall, C. Nathan, et al. «So Far Away from One’s Partner, Yet So Close to Romantic Alternatives: Avoidant Attachment, Interest in Alternatives, and Infidelity // Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 2011, 101 (6), pp. 1302?1316.

Ein-Dor, Tsachi, Mikulincer, Mario, Doron, Guy, Shaver, Phillip R. The Attachment Paradox: How Can So Many of Us (the Insecure Ones) Have No Adaptive Advantages? // Perspectives on Psychological Science, 2010, 5 (2), pp. 123?141.

Gyurak, Anett, Gross, James J., Etkin, Amit. Explicit and Implicit Emotion Regulation: A Dual-Process Framework // Cognition and Emotion, 2011, 25 (3), pp. 400?412.

Kidd, Celeste, Palmeri, Holly, Aslin, Richard N. Rational Snacking: Young Children’s Decision-Making on the Marshmallow Task Is Moderated by Beliefs About Environmental Reliability // Cognition, 2013, 126 (1), pp. 109?114.

Lewis, Thomas, Amini, Fari, Lannon, Richard. A General Theory of Love. – New York: Vintage Books, 2001.

Lyubomirsky, Sonja, Sheldon, Kennon M., Schkade, David. Pursuing Happiness: The Architecture of Sustainable Change // Review of General Psychology, 2005, 9 (2), pp. 111?131.

Mayer, John D., Salovey, Peter. What is Emotional Intelligence? In: Emotional Development and Emotional Intelligence: Educational Implications, Peter Salovey, David J. Sluyter (ed.). – New York: Basic Books, 1997.

Mischel, Walter. The Marshmallow Test: Why Self-Control Is the Engine of Success. – New York: Little, Brown and Company, 2015.

Shoda, Yuichi, Mischel, Walter, Peake, Philip K. Predicting Adolescent Cognitive and Self-Regulatory Competencies from Preschool Delay of Gratification: Identifying Diagnostic Conditions // Developmental Psychology, 1990, 26 (6), pp. 978?986.

Глава 5. Проблески понимания: паттерны и партнеры

Amato, Paul R., Previti, Denise. People’s Reasons for Divorcing // Journal of Family Issues, 2003, 24 (5), pp. 602?626.

Barry, Robin A., Lawrence, Erika. “Don’t Stand So Close to Me”: An Attachment Perspective of Disengagement and Avoidance in Marriage // Journal of Family Psychology, 2013, 27 (3), pp. 484?494.

Birnbaum, Gurit E., Reis, Harry T., Mikulincer, Mario, Gillath, Omri, Orpaz, Agala. When Sex Is More than Just Sex: Attachment Orientations, Sexual Experience, and Relationship Quality // Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 2006, 91 (5), pp. 929?943.

Bradbury, Thomas N., Fincham, Frank D., Beach, Steven R. H. Research on the Nature and Determinants of Marital Satisfaction: A Decade in Review // Journal of Marriage and Family, 2000, 62 (4), pp. 964?680.

Brumbaugh, C. C., Fraley, R. C. Adult Attachment and Dating Strategies: How Do Insecure People Attract Mates? // Personal Relationships, 2010, 17, pp. 599–614.

Buote, Vanessa M., et al. The Importance of Friends: Friendship and Adjustment Among 1st-Year University Students // Journal of Adolescent Research, 2007, 22 (6), pp. 665?689.

Burgo, Joseph. The Narcissist You Know: Defending Yourself Against Extreme Narcissism in an All-About-Me Age. – New York: Touchstone, 2016. В переводе на русский: Бурго Д. Осторожно, нарцисс! Как вести себя с этими самовлюбленными типами. – М.: Альпина Паблишер, 2019.

Campbell, Lorne, Simpson, Jeffry A., Boldry, Jennifer, Kashy, Deborah A. Perceptions of Conflict and Support in Romantic Relationships: The Role of Attachment Anxiety // Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 2005, 88 (3), pp. 510?531.

Downey, Geraldine, Feldman, Scott I. Implications of Rejection Sensitivity for Intimate Relationships // Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 1996, 70 (6), pp. 1327?1343.

Downey, Geraldine, Freitas, Antonio L., Michaelis, Benjamin, Khouri, Hala. The Self-Fulfilling Prophecy in Close Relationships: Rejection Sensitivity and Rejection by Romantic Partners // Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 1998, 75 (2), pp. 545?560.

Ein-dor, Tsachi, Mikulincer, Mario, Duron, Guy, Shaver, Phillip R. The Attachment Paradox: How Can So Many of Us (the Insecure Ones) Have No Adaptive Advantages? // Perspectives on Psychological Science, vol. 5 (2), pp. 123?141.

Feeney, Brooke C. The Dependency Paradox in Close Relationships: Accepting Dependence Promotes Independence // Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 2007, 92 (2), pp. 268?285.

Geher, Glenn. Perceived and Actual Characteristics of Parents and Partners: A Test of a Freudian Model of Mate Selection // Current Psychology, 2000, 19 (3), pp. 194?214.

Gottman, John. Why Marriages Succeed or Fail: And How You Can Make Yours Last. – New York: Fireside, 1994.

Jang, Su Ahn, Smith, Sandi W., Levine, Timothy R. To Stay or to Leave? The Role of Attachment Styles in Communication Patterns and Potential Termination of Romantic Relationships Following Discovery of Deception // Communication Monographs, 2002, 69 (3), pp. 236?252.

Luke, Michelle Anne, Sedikides, Constantine, Carnelley, Kathy. Your Love Lifts Me Higher! The Energizing Quality of Secure Relationships // Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 2012, 38 (6), pp. 721?733.

Malkin, Craig. Rethinking Narcissism: The Secret to Recognizing and Coping with Narcissists. – New York: Harper Perennial, 2016.

Noftle, Erik E., Shaver, Phillip R. Attachment Dimensions and the Big Five Personality Traits: Associations and Comparative Ability to Predict Relationship Quality // Journal of Research in Personality, 2006, 40, pp. 179?208.

Papp, Lauren M., Kouros, Chrystyna D., Cummings, E. Mark. Demand-Withdraw Patterns in Marital Conflict in the Home // Personal Relationships, 2009, 16 (2), pp. 285?300.

Schachner, Dory A., Shaver, Phillip R. Attachment Dimensions and Sexual Motives // Personal Relationships, 2004, 11 (2), pp. 135?265.

Schrodt, Paul, Witt, Paul L., Shimkowski, Jenna R. A Meta-Analytical Review of the Demand/Withdraw Pattern of Interaction and Its Association with Individual, Relational, and Communicative Outcomes // Communication Monographs, 2014, 81 (1), pp. 28?58.

Simpson, Jeffry A., Rholes, W. Steven. Adult Attachment, Stress, and Romantic Relationships // Current Opinion in Psychology, 2017, 13, pp. 19?24.

Simpson, Jeffry A., Rholes, W. Steven, Winterheld, Heike A. Attachment Working Models Twist Memories of Relationship Events // Psychological Science, 2010, 21 (2), pp. 252?259.

Wegner, Daniel, Guiliani, Toni, Hertel, Paula. Cognitive Interdependence in Close Relationships. In: Compatible and Incompatible Relationships, William Ickes (ed.). – New York: Springer Verlag, 1985, pp. 253?276.

Глава 6. Как осознать бессознательное

Bargh, John A., Chartrand, Tanya L. The Unbearable Automaticity of Being // American Psychologist, 1999, 54 (7), pp. 462?479.

Bargh, John A., Chen, Mark, Burrows, Lara. Automaticity of Social Behavior: Direct Effects of Trait Construct and Stereotype-Activation on Action // Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 1996, 71 (2), pp. 230?244.

Barrett, Lisa Feldman, Gross, James, Christensen, Tamlin Conner, Benvenuto, Michael. Knowing What You’re Feeling and Knowing What to Do About It: Mapping the Relation Between Emotion Differentiation and Emotional Regulation // Cognition and Emotion, 2001, 15 (6), pp. 713?724.

Baumann, Nicola, Kuhl, Julius. Intuition, Affect, and Personality: Unconscious Coherence Judgments and Self-Regulation of Negative Affect // Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 2002, 83 (5), pp. 1213?1223.

Boden, Matthew Tyler, Thompson, Renee J., Diz?n, M?g?, Berenbaum, Howard, Baker, John P. Are Emotional Clarity and Emotion Differentiation Related? // Cognition and Emotion, 2013, 27 (6), pp. 961?978.

Carnelley, Katherine B., Rowe, Angela C. Repeated Priming of Attachment Security Influences Later Views of Self and Relationships // Personal Relationships, 2007, 14 (2), pp. 307?320.

Chabris, Christopher, Simons, Daniel. The Invisible Gorilla: How Our Intuitions Deceive Us. – New York: Broadway Paperbacks, 2011. В переводе на русский: Шабри К., Саймонс Д. Невидимая горилла, или История о том, как обманчива наша интуиция. – М.: Карьера Пресс, 2011.

Chartrand, Tanya L., Bargh, John A. The Chameleon Effect: The Perception-Behavior Link and Social Interaction // Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 1999, 76 (6), pp. 893?910.

Erbas, Yasemin, Ceulemans, Eva, Pe, Madeline Lee, Koval, Peter, Kuppens, Peter. Negative Emotion Differentiation: Its Personality and Well-being Correlates and a Comparison of Different Assessment Methods // Cognition and Emotion, 2014, 28 (7), pp. 1196?1213.

Kahneman, Daniel. Thinking, Fast and Slow. – New York: Farrar, Straus & Giroux, 2011. В переводе на русский: Канеман Д. Думай медленно, решай быстро. – М.: АСТ, Neoclassic, 2017.

Kahneman, Daniel, Tversky, Amos. Prospect Theory: An Analysis of Decision Under Risk // Econometrica, 1979, 47 (2), pp. 263?292.

Kay, Aaron C., Wheeler, S. Christian, Bargh, John A., Ross, Lee. Material Priming: The Influence of Mundane Physical Objects on Situational Construal and Competitive Behavior Choice // Organizational Behavior and Human Decision Processes, 2004, 95 (1), pp. 83?96.

Koole, Sander L., Fockenberg, Daniel A. Implicit Emotion Regulation Under Demanding Conditions: The Moderating Role of Action Versus State Orientation // Cognition and Emotion, 2011, 25 (3), pp. 440?452.

Koole, Sander L., Jostmann, Nils B. Getting a Grip on Your Feelings: Effects of Action Orientation and External Demands on Intuitive Affect Regulation // Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 2004, 87 (6), pp. 974?990.

Lieberman, Matthew D., et al. Putting Feelings into Words // Psychological Science, 2007, 18 (5), pp. 421?428.

Lyubomirsky, Sonja, Sheldon, Kennon M., Schkade, David. Pursuing Happiness: The Architecture of Sustainable Change // Review of General Psychology, 2005, 9 (2), pp. 111?131.

Pazda, Adam, Prokop, Pavol, Elliot, Andrew J. Red and Romantic Rivalry: Viewing Another Woman in Red Increases Perceptions of Sexual Receptivity, Derogation, and Intentions to Mate-Guard // Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 2014, 40 (10), pp. 1260?1269.

Simons, Daniel J., Chabris, Christopher F. Gorillas in Our Midst: Sustained Inattentional Blindness for Dynamic Events // Perception, 1999, 28, pp. 1059?1074.

Wegner, Daniel M. Ironic Processes of Mental Control // Psychological Review, 1994, 101 (1), pp. 34?52.

Wegner, Daniel M. Setting Free the Bears: Escape from Thought Suppression // American Psychologist, 2011, 66 (8), pp. 671?679.

Wegner, Daniel M. White Bears and Other Unwanted Thoughts: Suppression, Obsession, and the Psychology of Mental Control. – New York and London: Guilford Press, 1994.

Wilson, Timothy D., Gilbert, Daniel T. Affective Forecasting // Advances in Experimental Social Psychology, 2003, 35, pp. 345?411.

Глава 7. Восстановление сил

Achtziger, Anya, Fehr, Thorsten, Oettingen, Gabriele, Gollwitzer, Peter M., Rockstroh, Brigitte. Strategies of Intention Formation Are Reflected in Continuous MEG Activity // Social Neuroscience, 2009, 4 (1), pp. 11?27.

Alloy, Lauren B., Abramson, Lyn Y. Judgment of Contingency in Depressed and Non-Depressed Students: Sadder But Wiser? // Journal of Experimental Psychology: General, 1979, 108 (4), pp. 441?485.

Ayduk, Ozlem, et al. Regulating the Interpersonal Self: Strategic Self-Regulation for Coping With Rejection Sensitivity // Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 2000, 79 (5), pp. 776?792.

Breines, Juliana G., Chen, Serena. Self-Compassion Increases Self-Improvement Motivation // Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 2012, 38 (9), pp. 1133?1143.

Brockman, Robert, Ciarrochi, Joseph, Parker, Philip, Kashdan, Todd. Emotion Regulation Strategies in Daily Life: Mindfulness, Cognitive Reappraisal and Emotion Suppression // Cognitive Behaviour Therapy, 2017, 46 (2), pp. 1?23.

Caldwell, Jon G., Shaver, Phillip R. Mediators of the Link Between Adult Attachment and Mindfulness // Interpersona, 2013, 7 (2), pp. 299, 310.

Caldwell, Jon G., Shaver, Phillip R. Promoting Attachment-Related Mindfulness and Compassion: A Wait-List-Controlled Study of Women Who Were Mistreated During Childhood // Mindfulness, 2015, 6 (3), pp. 624?636.

Chambers, Richard, Gullone, Eleonora, Allen, Nicholas B. Mindful Emotion Regulation: An Integrative Review // Clinical Psychology Review, 2009, 29 (6), pp. 560?572.

Cullen, Margaret. Mindfulness-Based Interventions: An Emerging Phenomenon // Mindfulness, 2011, 2 (3), pp. 186?193.

Davis, Daphne M., Hays, Jeffrey A. What Are the Benefits of Mindfulness? A Practice Review of Psychotherapy-Related Research // Psychotherapy, 2011, 48 (2), pp. 198?208.

Dweck, Carol S. Can Personality Be Changed? The Role of Beliefs in Personality and Change // Current Directions in Psychological Science, 2008, 17 (6), pp. 391?394.

Elliott, Andrew J., Thrash, Todd M. The Intergenerational Transmission of Fear of Failure // Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 2004, 30 (8), pp. 957?971.

Gross, James J. Emotion Regulation: Affective, Cognitive, and Social Consequences // Psychophysiology, 2002, 39 (3), pp. 281?291.

Harris, Adam J. L., Hahn, Ulrike. Unrealistic Optimism About Future Life Events: A Cautionary Note // Psychological Review, 2011, 118 (1), pp. 135?154.

Howe, Lauren C., Dweck, Carol S. Changes in Self-Definition Impede Recovery from Rejection // Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 2015, 42 (1), pp. 54?71.

Kircanski, Katharina, Lieberman, Matthew D., Craske, Michelle G. Feelings into Words: Contributions of Language to Exposure Therapy // Psychological Science, 2012, 23 (10), pp. 1086?1091.

Koo, Minkyung, Algoe, Sara B., Wilson, Timothy D., Gilbert, Daniel T. It’s a Wonderful Life: Mentally Subtracting Positive Events Improves People’s Affective States, Contrary to Their Affective Forecasts // Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 2008, 95 (5), pp. 1217?1224.

Legare, Christine H., Souza, Andr? L. Searching for Control: Priming Randomness Increases the Evaluation of Ritual Efficacy // Cognitive Science, 2014, 38, pp. 152?161.

Lieberman, Matthew D., Eisenberger, Naomi I., Crockett, Molly J., Tom, Sabrina M., Pfeifer, Jennifer H., Way, Baldwin M. Putting Feelings into Words: Affect Labeling Disrupts Amygdala Activity in Response to Affective Stimuli // Psychological Science, 2007, 18 (5), pp. 421?428.

Neff, Kristin. Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself. – New York: William Morrow, 2011.

Neff, Kristin D., et al. The Development and Validation of a Scale to Measure Self-Compassion // Self and Identity, 2003, 2, pp. 223?250.

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Oettingen, Gabriele, Gollwitzer, Peter M. Strategies of Setting and Implementing Goals: Mental Contrasting and Implementation Intentions. In: Social Psychological Foundations of Clinical Psychology, James E. Maddux, June Price Tangney (ed.). – New York: Guilford Press, 2010, pp. 114?135.

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Глава 8. Как перенаправить свою жизнь: делаем выбор

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Глава 9. Исцеление и продолжающаяся работа над собой

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